4th cycle TTC and some words of wisdom

Cd2 on my 4th cycle. Wearing my positive pants today and focusing forward to planning this month. I haven’t had a positive test yet but I’m hoping it’s not too far away 😊

I know there’s lots of ladies like me out there that didn’t fall pregnant on their first cycle and are continuing to try each month. It’s completely normal for a healthy couple with no fertility issues to still take a year to conceive and sometimes longer. I think we have to remind ourselves of that each month.

We have to reduce our symptom spotting and overanalysing every small thing occurring in our bodies and accept when the time is right it will happen. I know it’s hard but ultimately it’s choosing to suffer.

I often speak to ladies that are symptom spotting from 2DPO or testing every day from 5DPO and maximising their disappointment. Put down the tests ladies and focus on enjoying this special time with your partner.

We all want this! I promise you otherwise, we wouldn’t be on here tracking and talking to each other for support but stressing isn’t going to help the cause.

Sending all the baby dust and wishes to all the ladies on here ✨ 🍼🙏