Am I the best gf or the dumbest?

I am the only one w a job, I mostly clean and cook. Sometimes he’ll help, but usually he’s focused on his craft. Which I completely support, I have no problems w it. I’ll even buy his products full price + more bc I understand how hard it is to be an artist. But I just feel he doesn’t consider all that I do for him, bc he makes it seem normal and most women I know are never really down to be the provider and caretaker.

I don’t feel like his mom necessarily, but I for sure feel like it wouldn’t be much of a difference if I was doing all of this single than in a relationship. Idk if I’m really stupid for doing this or I’m the best gf ever and this will be worth it all in the end /:

UPDATE:

We went on a little beach trip and I talked to him about how I felt. He’s applying for jobs and made me dinner 🥰 I’m really relieved that he loves me enough to make a change. I’m hoping this lasts!