So, I’m just going to vent for a second, but as I said I’m a FTM. I have an older sister who has three kids. Last night at dinner, for at least the second time she gives me this back handed compliment. She says she is so excited for me but she doesn’t envy me. She continues to say I will have to give up everything I love and basically throw it away because my life is basically going to suck. It’s frustrating. I have no delusions of romanticizing raising a baby, but I feel so blessed and honored to have this opportunity. I feel like she does this with any big moment in my life. When my husband and I purchased our first house two years ago she came and did a walk through and talked about how small it was. She couldn’t just be happy for me. When we got married she constantly compared my wedding to hers. I’m so sick of it and I don’t even know how to begin to address it without causing a problem.