So my husband and my stepchildren are Hispanic and I have one mixed son with my husband and another child on the way with him but recently I’ve been accused of being a racist. My husband and I were on the way to a birthday party with my step son and he couldn’t find his shoes he had slides on but it had been raining and was wet outside so I suggested we stop and grab some from his mom. Well when we got to her house she wouldn’t let him get shoes 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t know if she was trying to start mess or what but It really made my husband mad. He was talking a lot of crap and I said if you’re that upset you should call your lawyer since you pay child support and she always sends him over looking trashy. They argue about their children all the time I really wish they would go to court and get visitation and support figured out!! Well my step son went home and told his mom I said I was going to call immigration and the police since she is here illegally 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ I would never say or do that to someone her status here is none of my business and I would hate to tear a family apart. Well she called my husband fussing about it and all he said was she said it because she was mad!! I got pissed because I didn’t even say it and he didn’t defend me and say that his son was lying!!! I am so mad at him right now. There is so much drama and shit talking over a lie and he won’t speak up for me and I can’t speak up for myself because she won’t talk to me at all and anyway we don’t speak the same language and I don’t even trust my husband to translate properly for me. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️