anxiety in relationship

nicole

so i have been with my bf for almost a year and a half and i love him so much. i have overall anxiety and depression but have been on medicine for a while and am doing a little better but i still have my bad days. when i have my bad days and i want him to just be with me and help me through it he kinda doesn’t wanna try to help me. it just makes me upset that like i would do anything to make him happy and he doesn’t see that he’s not doing the same. like i’m his top priority and he is amazing and does everything to make me happy but then it’s something so simple like if i’m having a bad day i want him to cuddle and watch movies but like if he’s not in the mood to deal with me being sad he just won’t. i get upset bc if i knew he was having a bad day i would go over with like ice cream and candy bc that’s his fav things and just be there with him. idk i feel like i’m just being too worried bc of my anxiety but i just don’t want to lose him i love him and care about him so much i couldn’t risk losing him over something stupid.