I’m struggling with foreplay with my boyfriend. We had a long dry streak 3 months in between in each time we had sex. So like semi long distance. He recently quit porn because he started struggling with keeping it up. But now sex is like a prize on a obstacle course. Our foreplay is lacking and the same stuff we did before isn’t working. We’d make out and touch eachother but now it’s boring. We even tried different kinks like role play and bdsm

but of course I’m kinkless and it just made me not want to have sex. What else can we do.