My husband and i have been married for3 years. First few months our sex life was good. Since last year our sex life has decreased to once every 2 weeks or once a month. Recently i have been traveling for over 2 months without my husband. I have been back for 2 weeks now and he still doesnt even try to have sex. I know that i caught him a few times searching for gay porn and transgender porn. I dont know what to do i gave him hints but i dont wanna give him to many hints its way too obvious. I know he isnt cheating he isnt that type i do trust him

Update: i did tall about this before when i caught him with gay porn i asked him why he wasnt having sex with me why he preferred porn. He said it has nothing to do with me and at that time he said he would change and spend more "time" with me. I dont wanna keep bringing up the same subject at this point is obvious now. He doesnt even bother looking at me in a way. He doesnt get turnt on by me. I feel heartbroken insecure