Cause he still wishes that he had his ex wife back. So him her their daughter and his ex wife son can all be a family again. A few months of us dating I seen a text he sent to her before me and him got together asking her to move in his house with him so they can be a family again. She replied no. I also seen text messages of him wishing he could rub her tummy and stuff. I asked him if he missed her and he said no but of course he wishes they could've worked out. Anyways he's not affectionate with me. He always seems like he doesn't want to be bother with me. The only time he gets excited to touch me is when we have sex. He says he does wants to be with me. He introduced me to his parents. But I dont feel the connection anymore and I'm thinking maybe i should just end things cause I dont feel like he's fully over his ex. I cant be happy with someone who misses their ex wife. He just seems to not care for me at all..it sucks cause I really do love and want to be with him but I dont feel a connection anymore like it was when we first got together. Idk😫🙄