Confused

Tamia

I lost my virginity last year 2018 of May and my cherry never popped. My hymen is still intact and i’m well over experienced now and it still is there and due to that, every single time I have sex it hurts bad for me and I can’t last long during sex before it starts hurting even more. I’ve had sex plenty plenty plenty of times and nothing has changed and I really want to experience sex minus the pain ... I check my vagina after every time I have sex with a mirror and it’s clear as day that my hymen is still there and hasn’t been popped. I’m so confused