I feel so bad for second babies and how people just seem to care less about them. Like I love my new little daughter and I know it doesnt matter because she will never remember this time, but it's sad to see how people really don't seem to care about her birth as much as with my first. She is five days old now, and she hasnt even recieved one gift since being born. I know that that kind of thing doesnt matter and I'm not worried because I will spoil her completely, but I just feel bad because I didnt have a baby shower or anything like that because she is my second, and my first daughter is only 20 months, so this one really doesnt need anything.... but I'm still really surprised that no one has got her anything at all ... and that barely anyone has even come to meet or visit her. So far it has just been my immediate family: siblings and parents. But no one else. I know I sound like a little complainer but it just sad how people dont care as much about kids born after the first.

And this might sound really selfish... but I kind wish someone had got me flowers. Lmfao!