I don’t know what to do...

Heather

So I have been having cramps on one side of my stomach, heart burn and I’m late by 4 days, I’m also really tired (but I have not been sleeping well). I truly don’t want to take a pregnancy test because I have taken so many and it has been it so hard every time it is negative. My husband is out of the country, I started a new job and old job stress. So like should I take a test or is this just normal stress stuff? And I know people say just take one it will ease your mind, but it also hurts so much when it is negative.