I posted last month about wanting to go see my boyfriend who’s stationed in Georgia. My mom- who doesn’t like him for no reason- is completely against the idea. I’m 18, will be leaving to college the day after I get back from Georgia. It’s his family day event (his family can’t go because they don’t have ID’s, so I’m the only other person who he wants to see). My mom wants me to be with a man who’s 30 because he has money & he gives her money. Although I’ll be out her house as soon as I come back, I can’t risk getting on her bad side because they’re helping me pay for 2 of my college classes & a military program I’m joining. So I got in touch with my cousin, she’s gonna cover for me while I leave the 16th, I come back the 18th but not until 7 PM & they’re throwing my brother a party, also a goodbye party for me on the 18th. It was originally supposed to be the 10th but she changed it to the 18th & I already bought my flight and my ticket. Idk what to do, my mom goes batshit crazy and I do NOT want to hear her going off on me if she finds out I went. Ofc she will find out eventually, I just don’t want her to find out now.. or anytime soon at least until im out the house. She’s too controlling and manipulative /: help (I couldn’t convince her to change the date, I already tried lying saying that my boss is also throwing me a goodbye surprise- technically not a lie since he is but it’s not on the 18th). Either way, she didn’t care.