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an

anonymous

So my boyfriend tried to finger me last night and it was awful I faked moaning and my vagina is sore and a bit swollen because he was rubbing in all the wrongs places and sticking in fingers when I’m dry😩😩

What do I do

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K

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Communicate! If you're moaning hesgonna think its good. Tell him what you want

Al

Alexis • Aug 4, 2019
i second this!! When my bf found out i was faking he was so discouraged because i was lying to him, and he felt guilty that I wasnt satisfied. Now, he wants to know exactly what I want all the time, so I’ve been working on being more vocal!

Li

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I'd recommend slowing down and touching each other softly at first. Your body needs time to warm up! I understand the instinct to want to moan to make him happy, but that will reinforce techniques that are painful to you. Also make sure you're into it on the mental level, as that can be a major part of your level of pleasure. Absolutely communicate!

Zu

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Try to show him what you like and lead him in a sexy way!! There’s no shame in telling him what pleases you :)

An

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Tell him what you like. If it’s dry use lube or spit (his or yours). Guide his hand in a sexy way. Tell him when something doesn’t feel good by saying, “hey that’s not really doing anything for me there, maybe move your hand up a little?” Or “that kinda hurts there, maybe try here (as you guide his hand)” or something similar