Really struggling right now

My husband and I have been TTC since October with no luck. I feel like every weekend someone else is announcing that they are pregnant. My family also keeps harping on us to have a baby, and they don’t know that we are trying. My cousin has just told the family that she is pregnant and I’m really struggling with it. I know it’s not a competition, but it’s just really frustrating because she is not married but was able to conceive before us. I’ve been feeling really down and getting super discouraged. Any suggestions to try to stay positive?