My husband and I have been married just over two years. He works in the oil field in Alaska so he’s gone two weeks then he’s home two weeks

He has been acting so weird. The last couple times when he’s away he has been so horny. Everyday he wants to FaceTime so he can masterbate. But When he’s home for the two weeks I have to beg him to have sex with me. We do it maybe five times in 14 days. But when he’s working he wants to masterbate two to three times in one day It has gotten so bad that during mid day when he’s suppose to be working he would call me while I was out shopping. I was at Walmart having to hide between the ice fridge and a wall so nobody would see. Then another time while I was at the beach with my family.

This guy has never groomed his pubic hairs in the two years we have been together then a couple days ago I noticed he had shaved all of it off. I asked him about it and he said that from him master bating all the time it’s been getting sticky so that’s why he shaved. I LOST IT!! He is a 47 year old man who use to not have any sex drive at all and now he’s like a teenager needing it all the time. He has been talking dirty to me telling me he wants to take our sex life to the next level. I asked what that meant because when we do have sex it’s amazing. He said he wants to do crazy things. Things that make us uncomfortable. He even said he wants me to do whatever I wanted to him like putting a butt plug in him. DO YOU KNOW THE SHIT THAT IS GOING THROUGH MY MIND RIGHT NOW? Let me tell you what’s going through my damn mind I’ll give you several scenarios.

First one is he’s high on heroin and he’s watching a lot of porn. (He use to be a heroin addict.) I recently found foil in his pants. It was clean but found dirty foil in the garage.

Second one is he’s fucking dudes at his work. (He works with all men)

Third is he has a side bitch that he FaceTimes and he masterbates with her.

Please don’t hold back but I need some clarity here because I’m going crazy. Opinions please!

Side note: I don’t shave or get waxed when he is gone because there’s no reason for me to do any of that. I’m not getting it so what’s the purpose.

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