Do I leave

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My boyfriend left on a business trip yesterday. And has only texted me a couple times. Other than that he has been ignoring me and has either blocked my number or has turned his iMessage off. I’m really close to ending things but I wanted to know how you guys feel about the situation.

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If he's on a business trip, it means he is working?
My SO occasionally goes on business trips and I rarely hear from him more than once or twice a day and it's short because he is with his co-workers basically all the time. 
Sounds pretty normal, don't know why you would leave over this?

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My boyfriend went on a trip for training. He had full hour days from like 8-6 so I would get a good morning text and we would talk a little at night. Regardless we didn’t talk much because he was either working or getting to know the other guys and out doing things with them in the new town he was in. Are you sure he’s actually blocking you and turning off iMessage. It could be that he doesn’t have service where he is and your iMessages aren’t sending. I’m not sure how to tell if someone blocks your phone number though. Like if a message pops up telling you you’re blocked or whatnot.

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Okay their could be 3 scenarios:
1.) he’s on a business trip that needs his full attention and if you’re blowing up his phone and demanding constant attention he’s going to need to deal with that issue to stay professional. The easiest way to do that in his mind is probably to keep his phone from turning off
2.) he’s not on a business trip and he’s actually cheating 
3.) he just doesn’t want to talk with you and wants to enjoy downtime alone after working

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Calm down. I'd block you too. It's a work trip. He's working. Just bc you can contact someone 24/7 via tech doesn't mean you should. Ask yourself if this was 30-40 years ago what would you do? Nothing. You'd be living your life.

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How my dad explains men: 
Men's brains are like drawers. Each drawer is a subject. Once that subject opens, finishes, it closes and goes to the next drawer. 
Each row is the primary responsibility of the day. 
Because he's working, work responsibilities are #1,#2,#3 etc. Personal is at the very very of end row of the drawer. 
It's not personal, it's just the difference of men and women's thought process' of the day. 
So, where women have Tab Bar Open galore and can reference a zillion things throughout the day at any given moment, guys have individual drawers they can only access at one time. 
Again, it's not personal. 
From the little relationship information you've shared you seem to be overreacting and have insecurities in the relationship if you want to end the relationship simply because he isn't texting you back.

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Business trip means business. Most likely he needs to focus his attention on work. It looks really unprofessional if you are constantly texting. It sounds like you guys just did not communicate each other’s expectations of communication while he was on his trip. I’d suggest the next time he’s on a business trip (or any trip for that matter), you guys discuss your expectations. 
Example: “Hey, I know you’ll be busy with work, but I care about you and would still like to touch base with you every day. Can you shoot me a quick text when you wake up or before you go to bed?” Or “I’m going to need to focus all my attention on work while I’m gone and will probably be hanging with coworkers in the evenings after work. I will probably turn my cell off, but will text when I can.”

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dont leave him until he explains wats going on

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You should leave so you can grow up a little.

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In my opinion that’s not good, he shouldn’t be ignoring you or blocking you. I would leave

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Maybe he's working on his business trip? When he comes back, chat with him about your feelings in a civilized manner like an adult. Then decide after that.

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