Hello ladies, I need a little advice.

Back story (might be a bit long).

4 years ago I moved to a new city and met this girl, which had just moved to the same area too and we became really good friends. I mean we were very very close, talked everyday about everything and so on.

She ended up pregnant after a year and had a beautiful baby boy.

After 8 months he was born, me and my partner moved about 1.5 hr away and I got pregnant.

All thru my pregnancy I drove to see her and her son many many times and we were still in touch almost everyday.

Then the unthinkable happened and I delivered my son still, at 35 weeks gestation. She was one of the first to know he was gone and was very supportive, always there to talk, but never found the time to actually come and see me, despite the countless promises to catch up.

I then got pregnant again after only 4 months after my loss and it has been an incredibly hard pregnancy, mentally and physically.

She was still promising to come and see us, which never happened, there was always a last minute reason.

I got a bit distant in the last few months of pregnancy, partly cause I was a bit tired of the empty promises, but mainly cause the stress of the pregnancy pushed me in a bit of a dark place e didn't want anyone around.

Then my daughter was born, perfect and healthy.

I told her, I apologise for my lack of communication of the last weeks and she said she understood, was all water under the bridge and couldn't wait to meet the baby.

In the following weeks we had some texts exchange, to which I admit I was replying with a little delay (but was normal for us anyways in the past too) but newborn life is busy and I was adjusting the best I could, considering that I have no family at all around, so no real help.

Anyway, after another couple of weeks, I realized I haven't heard from her or seen anything from her on FB or Instagram, I go to look at her profile and realize she deleted me.

Now. I like social media and enjoy spending time on it, but they are not real life. So deleting me without even try to talk or tell me if there was an issue it looks completely childish to me, to the point that I'm not even gonna reach out and ask what happened.

So there was it, we never spoke again since.

But, last week, her partner posted on Instagram that their little boy (which is 2 and half now) just got diagnosed with level 1 of autism, which I know it was something she was really scared of.

So I'm unsure of what should I do now.

Should I reach out to her and say something about it, or should I just move on?

Sorry for the long post and thanks if you got this far!