❌Massive advice and help needed please❌

1st⚠️

We’re due to give birth in possibly 5 weeks (tomorrow) however due to lots of reduced movements for the past month or more (going in hospital at 3 times a week to reduced movement & we were admitted for 3 days and given steroid injections at 30 weeks) & slow growth (our little girl has dropped to the 10th centile line) the midwife seems to think it’ll be sooner, we go for our next scan at 36 weeks and to see our consultant. Has anyone had this where they’ve been induced sooner due to reduced movements?

2nd⚠️

At the beginning of the year me and my Partner discussed getting a dog, there wasn’t a talk about a type of breed however I stated I didn’t want a big dog as we already have a toddler (just turned 2) we go to look at this dog a Staffy however our little boy didn’t like the parent dogs some and our little boy went to sit in the car then the other half comes out and has brought her - no communication or a talk before hand, fast forward a week or so we discovered that we were expecting our second baby, i was already worried at this stage as I wasn’t sure how I was going to cope with a toddler and a newborn, fast forward to now the doggy is 8 months old, very big already, so strong and I struggle to keep her in the house as she’s so strong and jumps up at guests, my little boy has a love hate relationship with the dog and the dog deserves to be walked more and to be treated more like a baby etc more attention , my other half as already told me he isn’t going to get rid of the dog. I’ve told him that I can’t cope with a new born, a toddler and a puppy, but it would kill him to get rid of the dog. That seems to me that he doesn’t seem too bothered about our relationship and that he doesn’t seem too bothered about us as a couple, WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!

Advice is really welcomed please🙏🏼

Thank you x