Threesome???

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My bf wants a threesome n he said I can pick the girl but i don’t want one because I don’t want his dick in another girls vagina n I’m a jealous type plus what if he rather have the other girl n not me ik I might sound insecure it just scares me n he knows that I don’t want to. Maybe one day in the future but at this point I’m not ready. Please give me sum advice on what I should do.

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Tell him you’ll let him pick the guy. 😂

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Girl you don’t sound insecure. It just sounds like he wants an excuse to fuck another girl without getting in trouble! FUCK THAT SHIT. I would absolutely never, but my man wouldn’t ever have to the balls to ask me that nor does he want to have sec with other women. Threesomes 9/10 turn bad lol.

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A threesome isn’t really a negotiable topic. It’s either both partners agree to it completely, or it’s not a good idea, simple as that. If you go in to a threesome knowing you’re a jealous type and already feeling insecure about him wanting another girl, then it will just end HORRIBLY. Tell him no and stand your ground. Do not negotiate it, don’t discuss it further, no is the final answer. If he can’t accept that then consider moving on from him.

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Don’t do it! If you don’t feel comfortable doing that sort of thing he shouldn’t pressure you to do so. If he continues to pressure you, get rid of him.

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One of the most heartbreaking posts I’ve read here was about the wife who agreed to a threesome for her husband, and while he was getting it in with the other woman, she got uncomfortable and signaled for him to stop. And he didn’t. So she left the room until they finished. And at that point, even after years together and kids, was considering divorce. And I don’t blame her. It is psychologically scarring. Don’t do it. Makes me want to vomit just thinking about it.

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No

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Not wanting to bring someone else into the bedroom does not make you insecure. Tell him you aren’t comfortable with it, end of discussion.

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Tell him NO?

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Tell him you don't want to! You aren't comfortable with it & tell him how you feel. 
You could also look at some polyamourous people's videos about jealousy, some are actually really helpful even if you are monogamous.

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Don't do it!! I'm with the other ladies saying it sounds like an excuse for him to have sex with someone else. Some couples are okay with threesomes (and all power to them) but if you're not 100% comfortable don't do it, it will be the end of your relationship as you know it if you just "agree" to it because he wants it. DONT DO IT

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