Is it normal?

Question

So my boyfriend and i use to have sex multiple times a day, everyday. But now that we moved in together almost 2 months ago our sex life has been basically nonexistent. We basically have sex maybe once a week or once every two weeks now. I dont know if its because hes not attracted to me or  maybe this is normal? He doesnt work so hes not really tired or anything?

Answer

You should read Esther Perel’s book Mating in Captivity. She has many useful insights including the fact that sexual dynamics can change when you live with your significant other.

Answer

Multiple times a day, every day?! How did you have time to do anything else? Unless he cums in a short amount of time. I’d understand then why you’d want it multiple times.

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It’s probably because with living together there isn’t a sense of urgency... you know the other person is going to be there at night or the following morning so you aren’t thinking “now or never” it’s more like there will be dozens of opportunities or better opportunities for sex.

Is it normal?

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