So my mom HATES my boyfriend literally HATES him because he’s Hispanic. We’ve had our fair share of ups and downs in our relationship and decided to end things for a couple of months because it was hard to be together when my mom was always getting in the way. Mind you he helped her do stuff around the house and he went to the store and just did a bunch of things for her. We were together for a year+. We’ve decided to get back together because this is the man I want to marry and have kids with, he’s kind hearted but has messed up before with me but we’ve moved past it. I just want to be happy but I don’t know how to tell my parents that we are back together. I start college in 4 months, we’re both going to the same college (not because we are together, it’s cheaper than KU) I know that I want him and I want to settle with him in the future but my mom would never appreciate him or approve of him and I. I just need help on what I should do. I’m an adult and can make my own decisions but my mom is a helicopter parent. Hard headed. She’s made racist remarks towards him multiple times and he’s always been nice to her no matter what. Should I tell her we’ve decided to get back together or should I just wait till he proposes?