Confusion

Alexis

Okay so here it goes I’m into bdsm and that’s not a secret but like I’ve noticed on websites where they show that it’s always so rough and like extreme??? Is there another term for slightly lighter bdsm because don’t get me wrong I love being choked and tied up and spanked all the fun stuff but I’m not into needles or zapping or extremely painful stuff so I guess my question is are there levels to bdsm and if so what are the terms