Sex with my husband
Does anyone else’s husband/boyfriend not want to have sex with them? Or is it just mine?
All he thinks about is the baby, and it makes me get frustrated (sometimes angry) that she is so active in my tummy and consumes his mind.
I hate myself. I hate how i look. I hate how he calls me beautiful/gorgeous and says he loves my body but won’t touch me, look at me or kiss me how he used to.
I’m so embarrassed for him to see me naked. I’m so embarrassed to talk about my pregnancy.
And when we had sex a couple a days ago i felt sad because of the position we were in and the lights were out..(it wasn’t intentional at all, it was late and we were headed to bed) but i still couldn’t help but feel gross like he couldn’t bare to look at me while being intimate.
I feel so ugly. Unwanted. Not connected to him. I’m only 29 weeks. I need advice
Edit: should’ve added this! we have talked about it multiple times and he knows exactly how i feel but i still am struggling mentally with changing how i think he views me...and him still having a mental block (baby) when it comes to sex.
Edit again: based off it being “just me” i have 1000000% tried to be more sexy for him and dress up and look good for him. I want to have sex with my husband. It gets ignored or changed to the baby when i make flirty comments, try to be sexy blah blah
Being embarrassed about my body and him seeing me naked only happened after i initiated sex... tried to be sexy for him and him having to stop sex because of “the baby”
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