Just some advice for those doing the debate. My mom actually advised me to have sex before marrying someone, to make sure you're compatible in your chemistry and what you both enjoy. You don't want to get married and find out the other person likes some weird shit that you're not into. You also want to feel comfortable talking to them about what you both like. Sex isn't picture perfect the first, second, or even third time like in the movies. People sweat, they get muscle cramps, something tickles and makes you laugh, you get a coughing fit, someone farts, weird noises come out of weird places, someone finishes first, and things get messy. And this will continue to happen (5 years with my husband and we still hit little road bumps that make us giggle)

Make sure you

A) trust this person

B) be smart and safe (protection ladies)

C) are prepared to handle potential consequences and complications

D) educate yo'self (reliable sources please)

E) relax and have fun!

Feel free to ask questions, I know many states have super shitty sex ed programs, if any at all.