Watching a movie and a clip came on that reminded me too well the crap I’ve gotten from men throughout my life.

Why is saying no not good enough? Why if maybe we feel a moment of wanting each other and you change your mind for a personal reason they have a right to call us a “tease”? Maybe we kiss but they expected more, we stop and they try to push their way past what we want? I’ve had the “what changed” “ugh” “are you kidding me” “*sarcastic * ok?” Accompanied by the rolled eyes and grunts as they get pissed off or make you feel bad for not sleeping with them?

I get how it can be disappointing, we all can be that way when we have an expectation that isn’t met. But it pisses me off to no end how a guy can feel entitled to MY body. Sometimes it honestly makes me not even want a man. They have no right to any part I don’t choose to give them. Being a victim of sexual assault and coerced into sexual activities (by my own ex fiancé for that matter) is absolutely unacceptable. I’m tired of being guilted into things and taken advantage of.

One guy who I recently slept with, we had sex and a few days later hung out and started to act like we would but I decided against it for personal reasons. Literally he said “I understand, would you be okay if we just sleep naked? I promise it won’t lead to anything.” And it didn’t and he is by far one of the best guys I’ve met in a very long time.

Ladies and gentleman (because yes it happens to men I am most certainly sure), realize you don’t owe anyone ANYTHING. You owe yourself to walk away from any a-holes who doesn’t respect you or your body.