I'm almost completely unsatisfied by my sex life with my husband and I just do not know what to do. It's like he never wants to have sex, and even if we're messing around like wrestling or something and he gets hard, he just goes on about his day. I'm only 24 and having sex max 3 times a month. I'm so fed up and I don't know what to do 😔😔

Edit: We have talked about it multiple times and he always says there isn't a problem and that we'll have more sex. But everytime it's the same. I think he just tells me what I want to hear so I'll stop bothering him.