So my boyfriend and i been together 5 years come Thursday. We both have trust issues due to he thinks im friendly and what people have lied to him (they could fuck me, i hang out with other dudes, im too pretty to be with him) bout. Hes actually cheated with his "gay" female best friend a few months ago so our relationship has been rocky. Today we had an argument based on the fact my brother gave a random friend my number and this guy texts me nonstop without me replying. He texted me goodmorning yesterday and my bf saw he. He said something to me today bout it but i didnt see the issue when i dont reply nor answer this persons texts nor texts. He says not responding is just as bad as responding. My bf swears i got picks and im leaving opportunity for other guys but im not. I felt like if i replied my bf would have an issue due to me correcting his friends. Theyve lied to him bout the convo we had and made it seem like i was cheating when i wasnt when i told his friends hes still ny dude dont disrespect him. And this new person knows i have a man at home. So i thought after texting me 9 times back to back hed eventually get the hint that im not interested in anything. Im confused as to where im wrong and where im friendly cause im literally minding my business not giving my boyfriend nun to complain bout cause i dont have time for it.