literally, me and my hubby got into an argument and of course he decided to tell her about it. it’s like anytime he’s upset his sister will literally cuss him out to the point she’ll make him tell her even if she doesn’t want to. i just feel like our arguments need to stay to OURSELVES!

like, our argument was about how much his family is butting into our relationship. she texted me saying she’s an outgoing person and she speaks her mind and she thinks she has a right to know about what’s going on with her brother at all times. they’re both adults. GROWN! and i am too! she’s literally pissing me off because she texted me and also told me i should change. like what do i need to change for? me and my boyfriends relationship is so amazing. we are also TTC and some of our arguments are literally about how much they’re included. like i don’t mind them being included but they know so much shit and i’m tired of his sister always up his ass, forcing it out of him when the arguments can be as little as me losing a card game and getting mad about it.

i want to tell her it’s not that deep but i don’t know how to approach it to her. i’m trying so hard not to pop off on her.

and she has a problem with saying n*gger as well. literally, she said it earlier and my boyfriend was like “dude can you please shut the fuck up like my girlfriend is right there” and she was like “i shouldn’t have to fucking step on eggshells and watch what i say around her. literally it wasn’t aimed at her so she shouldn’t cry like a little bitch about it.”

i’ve done nothing TO her!