Drama lama.

Alisha

So the guy that I’ve been seeing on and off for the last 3 YEARS dropped a huge bombshell on me tonight. We got back together after a 7 month hiatus and then today things just went Insane. I should have known something cause I didn’t have the butterflies in my stomach every time I’d get a message from him or when I saw him Saturday night or when he put his hand on my leg during the movie.

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Ka

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He says yall have had this chat before, several times in the last 3 years. I mean, he didn't lie to you and he's been straight with you from the start. You knew he didnt want the same thing you did. If you kept messing with him after that, it's on you. Don't get mad at him for being honest yet again. Take the loss and move on to someone who wants what you want. No use wasting time waiting for him to come around when he's clearly not going to. It'll just hurt you more in the long run.

Ka

Katie • Aug 7, 2019
Good. Not all the stuff about it hurting. But the knowing you deserve better.

Al

Alisha • Aug 7, 2019
Yet he comes back begging me to come to him, promising me it will be different. I’ve been through a lot in my life and he’s known my family since he was a kid and knows how abusive my grandpa was and everything and stuff. It’s hard when someone is that understanding of everything and doesn’t judge. But now I’ve learned that I just don’t matter and it hurt but I know I deserve better

K

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Well he's not wrong, after three years you guys haven't been able to make it work what makes you think he's about to make this long term? There's no point when you two will just break up again

Mr

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Please, try to stay away from him. It hurts yes, but he really said it from the onset that he’s not for long term at all. Try to brace yourself and let him out of your life for good. Someone better will come, darling!

Ka

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At least it wasn't 8 years, get the heck away if you want a real relationship.