Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. In the beginning he couldn’t go a day or even the majority or the day without talking to me. Every free time he has he’s figuring out what I have planned to see me. Now I only see him once a week and we barely speak everyday. I’ve told him how I felt, mentioned how I feel like we’re fading and he goes into defensive mode saying how he’s going through a lot, feeling worthless, blame he doesn’t have time because he’s working more and has his son full time. I get that but I don’t think he knows how to balance things. When we do talk or see each other it’s like old times. I can’t help but to think he’s either bored with me, someone else has his attention or maybe he really is just going through a lot. I want to give him space because I feel we’re in a long distance relationship living in the same city and maybe he needs to focus on him but then I feel if I end things for the moment he’ll resent me for giving up on him when he’s feeling low. What do I do? I miss the old us but I deserve more and I just want these thoughts to stop