So recently I had a baby 8 months ago literally... and well through the 8 months I’ve been invited to my S/O family events but I have plans and get told I’m not making enough time etc etc and I am “keeping the baby away from his other family” well I honestly can’t say I am considering I have tried to make it work. But, I get busy and can’t make it or my son KO by the time I stop by or it’s close to bedtime he’s on a schedule so like he’s not out past 8 etc . Mind I don’t have a car a little over a month now. So I rely on my close family to drive me to shop, or family events. I don’t mind them visiting I tell my sons Father Time and time again they can come over whenever they want idc. I’m always home. But he says they’re not going to drive over if you live not that far like 🤨 so I’m suppose to visit and only I visit mind they never once asked me to go personally ever talked to me told me always told my sons father ask “blah blah” to come bring the baby or she needs to visit so and so... but like why do I have to make my way for things that they can honestly do themselves. They honestly have not helped whatsoever they have not bought anything for my son since he was born. My family has bought the most helped out the most like can they really not take time out of their day to come over and visit I’m not keeping him from no one I never once said no they can’t see him I simply always said ok well they’re not far of a drive have them come out to see us. Never once have any of my mans family messaged me asked me or told me is he ok how is he doing can I visit etc and if they asked to visit I would honestly say yes come over just let me know what day and time. But I’m the one making it look like I’m keeping him away from family they literally talk about me even if I make a commitment to go to a family event but even so I have to be home @8 and depending how far the drive is their and back I’ll max spend an hour only cause the time the party started and even so I would get their early asf to let him see family and no one was obviously their cause party started @4 and got their @3 so like I left right when everyone was getting their cause it was like an 1hr 2 drive back home. But I was being told by my sons dad my mom was wondering why you didn’t stay longer like I’m trying but I have ugh idk I just needed to rant