so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years next month. i’m almost 19, he’s 21. we have talked about getting an apartment for a while now and i’m a good saver so i have thousands saved up for an apartment. (im only part time at my job but i will also be receiving money monthly bc my dad is a disabled veteran, so not worried about paying bills on my end) my bf works full time but he is awful at saving, he keeps having to pay for things and using his savings for the apartment. i’m getting kinda restless and i want to move out asap.

he lived at my house for about a year but recently moved in with his grandma to help with chores, plus my house was kinda toxic with my mom. so i moved out and i’m living with my grandma right now. we don’t see eachother as much anymore but he sneaks into my grandmas for a little bit. i miss sleeping with him everynight and cuddling everynight and waking up next to him. basically just miss him so much.

long story short, i want an apartment asap and he said he wants to wait a few more months till he gets school figured out and payed for. he really wants one as well but im tired of waiting and kinda feel like its never gonna happen. he knows how i feel about it. i don’t want to grow apart bc of this. please help 😭