I’ve had my mind set on only having me and my husband in the delivery room for our baby’s birth next month and I didn’t want anyone else because it’s such an intimate moment and after her birth I wanted some time to breast feed and be parents to our baby before family shows up my mother in law keeps asking if she can be in the room or outside waiting but that makes me feel rushed to enjoy my child so I said no i will let everyone know when we’re ready for visitors My sister in law voiced her opinion on how she’s not fine with it it’s her mothers first grandbaby and how it’s special for her too and how it’s looking down on me I then said I make my own decisions and wanting privacy with my first child is something I want then respected. Anyone can say what they want about me even if it makes me look like the bad guy or selfish. I have every right and then proceed to share them with my husband and he then agrees 🙂