I don’t know if I’m on the right group or not but I just need to talk and advice.

I’m 27 yr old, still pretty young but also finding out I’m having complications. Last month we found out we were pregnant and just two days later I went into the hospital due to bleeding and pain all to find out I am having ectopic. I’m on stricked bed rest and no normal activity. My quant levels are dropping which is good but my question is, how do I know when it’s ready to try again? Am I being selfish to try again? And how did you women grieve while going through this? My emotions are everywhere I want to cry I want to scream and I’m so scared to try again but I’m also wanting to try. My dr told me to wait at least until my levels dropped which can take up to 2 months but I feel that’s still pretty early to try again. Like I said I’m 27 we have two kids one of my kid is my step daughter and I’ve always wanted two pregnancies. Am I being selfish should I just accept that my life is good with the kids I do have now and be grateful? I don’t know how to feel honestly. Our family is wanting another including my two year old son he wants a baby sister . It just breaks my heart because I’m torn and scared and just want to talk to someone whose had ectopic and had a healthy pregnancy later. My daughter is 9 and we told her everything and she’s telling me not to give up and not to be scared. Should I listen to her? Is she right? Ectopic is no joke neither are miscarriages, and I’m so sorry for anyone who has been through it. 💔