Do you think it’s fair

My friend has a habit of jumping into relationships especially with immature younger guys. The last one she had was a nightmare. She would call me every time there was a problem. I would tell her what I would do but most likely it’s up to her to take the advice. I was traveling on the road with my boyfriend and she calls me telling me that she’s suicidal and texting me that she doesn’t want to be here anymore. There was literally nothing I could do from a semi truck. I never met her parents so I didn’t know them. Most of her childhood friends and college friends she had cut off so it was hard trying to talk her out of it.

This is not the first time she tried killing herself over a guy.

You can’t help someone that doesn’t want help. Like you can’t force them to go to therapy. I think she was going but didn’t like it. She only contacts me when things aren’t going her way and she gets herself into these situations with guys.

Is it fair that I’m always there for her but if I needed some support she’s not there for me. I’m fine with it because I can just go talk to my cousin about how I’m feeling. My friend is emotionally draining.

I told her about my pregnancy and she just judged me for it. I have a job and we are going to save money to get married. I don’t judge her for going around laying with different people (she says mostly cuddling and sleeping just to clarify ). I just tell her to be safe with that because I don’t judge her activities. She judges me and think I’m not ready to be a parent well I am ready. I have to ready regardless. I just don’t want her negative energy right now. My baby will come first and I’m going to provide for them.