My aunt and I are 6 years apart we had babies around the same time . Are babies are 2 years old now . We met up for lunch and to do some baby shower decor shopping (shes going on baby #2 ) after the store we are heading to lunch so I help her buckle her baby because her belly is huge and bending hurts her back . So when I buckled her daughter in I noticed the carseat is kinda lose and when I check it wasent even secured to the car with the straps it has for it 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻 she just puts her baby in staps it but never secures it .... I told her you know this isnt secured your baby can get injured really bad if you get into an accident . Her response its fine as long as she has the carseat straps on her the carseat doesnt need to be straped to car . I was mind boggled .... I straped the car seat properly to car and made sure it didnt move and she got mad ... She yelled im your aunt respect my choice and my parenting ..... I snapped becaue thats my cousin shes putting in danger I told her respect your patenting and choice , sorry hell no not when it can cost my cousins life if you where to get into an accident 🤦🏻

I feel bad but at the same time I dont because thats irresponsible . when ever we argue she knows shes wrong she always uses the im your aunt respect me ...