SERIOUS marriage advice needed!! Please!
Okay, so my husband is a commercial plumber. The company he works for has different jobs all over the state, they assign their employees to whichever job they want and the employee usually has no say in this. We've been blessed and fortunate enough that he has had good supervisors who took where we lived into consideration and kept him working on jobs about 25 minutes from our house. The job he was on recently ended so we waited and waited on pins and needles to find out where he would go. Thankfully again they took where we love into consideration and moved him to a different job still 25 mins away.
THEN! This is what gets me.
Two weeks later his party animal irresponsible OLDER brother who was recently unemployed, and is going through a divorce, gets on at my husbands company and they send him to a town 2 hrs away from where he lives, so he is you go have to stay down there during the week to work, he tells my husband what a hard time he's been having with money and that itd be so much help and better for him if they sent my husband there too so they could split a room and save his brother money. So what does my husband do to help his brother? Calls his boss and asks to be sent to this job two hours away from home.
This upsets me more than you can understand.
We've been married two months, and now he's going to be living two hours away from me Monday through Friday because he wanted to help his brother or.. Which I understand. But I'm still so upset! We had been so relieved to hear he wasn't going to have to be sent far away, then he asks to help his 9 years OLDER brother with money.
Am I wrong for being so upset by this?
I guess in a way I just wanted him to put me first.
Someone help me!
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