ISO solidarity. This is tougher than I’d (maybe naively) imagined it would be. My husband and I have an almost 2yo. We had an ectopic pregnancy back in March and a miscarriage in June, so I’m probably more tied to a calendar than I would have been without the two losses. We so badly want another child. But adhering to cyclical dates is way tougher than expected with a tiny child who doesn’t have a consistent bedtime or any understanding of family planning. 🤷🏻‍♀️ My husband took kiddo to bed 45 minutes ago and I’m lying here in lingerie hoping hubby doesn’t fall asleep in there...ugh