Anal?!?

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My boyfriend really wants to try anal, but I'm petrified and embarrassed! What should I do?

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I used anal eaze and a vibrator and we went very slow, he was so sweet about it , he told me to take deep breaths and to not think about it to much, he told me to not tighten up , to relax and when I did I really enjoyed it but we don't do it that much but I wouldn't mind if we did 😋

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I had that issue too a while ago, let me tell you that if your not entirely comfortable then just say so. If your open minded then why not don't be embarrassed I'm assuming you have done other things aswell. It can be scary but you just have to have the right mindset. Try and think of the positives and how fun it could be. I gave it a shot, he was too thick xD needed more lubricant. So my word of advice, if you do end up wanting to give it a try make sure you are clean, have gone for number two at least two hours prior and make sure to use ALOT of lubrication to make it easy and no pain. Good luck and it's okay if you don't like it most women don't and be proud that you went out of your comfort zone  😊

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My boyfriend wanted to do anal for a while before we actually did, and it took a LOT of him encouraging me and telling me that nothing about me would ever gross him out. I was embarrassed too! I can't even comprehend how guys want their penis in a poop infested tube but hey, that's just me. Either way, he was curious and wanted to try it and I told him no MANY times cause I was just embarrassed and didn't want anything being stuck up my ass. He was so sweet to me though, every time making sure to tell me that if I ever wanted to try it, he would never be grossed out by anything that could potentially come out or anything like that. And he was (and is) big on the compliments, always telling me that my ass is beautiful, etc. When we did do anal, it was wonderful. It hurts like a son of a gun but you just need to do your research and use lots of lube.

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I love anal :) I get the most amazing organisms. With that said, you have to be able to relax your anal muscles, otherwise it can hurt. Do kegle exercises and stimulate the muscles, either orally or manually (fingers or toys.) Use plenty of lube also.

Make sure he goes slow and that you are ready. If you are not interested or not ready, then it will not turn out good. Relax, watch a porn and play. HAVE FUN.

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My advice is that he cannot ask for anal...it doesn't work like that! It should be something tried out when you feel excited enough to do so, 'mid-session'.
It's highly uncomfortable to just start off with anal... get everything going during sex then if you fancy trying it, do so!

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Thank you all so much! You have put me incredibly at ease now! :) xx

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I hated it worst thing I ever did tbh X

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The first time I tried it, it was in the shower with my boyfriend, I wouldn't do it on a bed or anything and we've done it twice, it felt weird, and it hurt but he doesn't like it and neither do I so we haven't done it since. If you don't want to say so, or try it with him but make sure he knows how you feel so you can tell him to stop at any given moment, hope this helps xxx

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