Has this happened to anyone or going thru the same thing!?! HELL!!! I have a one year old boy that was born at 35weeks. After 6 months I noticed his testicle missing so we asked the dr and it resulted in surgery due to a testicle not dropping he had his ultrasounds and so on. Getting to the point he now has one testicle. I constantly think about when he is grown and I fill myself up with guilt and don’t know what I’ll be telling him when he gets older and starts asking questions. His dad says he will talk to him in a way that calms me down. The dr said he has cosmetic surgery that can help, he also says he will be needed a “cup” for protection for whatever sports he wants to be in. So the point is he will not be able to rough play with friends, brothers or sisters because he can get hurt. I’m not sure what to tell him I’m just afraid he will be mad at us and would want to blame us. What would some of you moms do or say.

No Rude Comments I’m Only Asking For Advice!