Why TF do men not go to the ER?!?!

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My Husband came home early from work today and could barely walk. I was lifting cabinets and felt a pop and then callapsed to his knees screaming in pain. But the man refuses to go the the ER! I'm so livid he hasn't cried in pain since he blew a hole in his leg (literally). I'm trying to take care of him and our son while pregnant and damn is he heavy! I want to strangle him for not letting me take him to the DR. I'm rotating heat and ice and Tylenol and ibuprofen but I feel so helpless. He's literally pissing in a cup and I'm dumping it for him because he can't walk. If that ain't love I don't know what is.