So my bf and I have been together for almost two years. We started out as long distance but after a year together I moved in with him and his family. Ever since then I’ve been going from job to job, financially struggling and missing my family back home. I don’t like to go out and hang out with his family or friends because I’m so scared of talking to people. I avoid anything that has to do with going out unless it’s just me and him. First year we were together he didn’t have a job and was going to school then stopped school and stayed home because of his sciatica. Second year he got a job which only lasted 8 months and he hasn’t had a job since but he’s coaching hs football now. I’ve been trying to motivate him to workout and eat healthy with me but he doesn’t. I’m stressed because I gotta push myself and then I also gotta push him because I feel like if I don’t what kind of gf would I be? He definitely doesn’t budget his money correctly because he spent it mostly on food and going out with his friends when our car needs to be fixed. I just feel like we don’t have the same motivation like I wanna be able to move out of this house and get our own place but he seems to comfortable especially since he’s a mommas boy. I miss home and thinking about my future and idk if he’s willing to be change and get out of the mommas boy phase.