Is he trying to guilt trip me?
I went out to lunch with a (girl) friend of mine that I’ve known for about 3 years. I texted my boyfriend (we’ve been together for about 3 months) and told him how it went well. He texted me and said “oh that’s good” and then followed up with “I wish I could make friends”, which I thought sounded weird, seeing as I know he has a good amount of friends. I tried to be lighthearted about it and just said “I don’t really know how I make friends, I just talk to people around me and it works out a lot of the time”. He responded with “I’m going to bed”. I could tell something was wrong so I asked and he said “that comment made me feel shitty about myself because I try to talk to people and they just ignore me.” I’m confused on how to respond to this situation because I never said anything about him making friends or how his social skills are my fault?
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