Asking too much?

Renee

Officially 7 months with 12 weeks to go. Is it really too much to ask that my partner stay in the house more often? He literally works 12 hours 6 days a week...sometimes more. When he gets off her rarely comes straight home. He breaks my sleep when he comes in at 1am, 2am, 3am or whatever time it he gets in. If I say anything about it there’s always an argument about me not understanding that he needs time for himself bc he works so much. Do I think he’s out with women? Not at all but the fact that you’re out with the guys damn near every night just feels irresponsible to me. I know dealing with my pregnant ways isn’t easy but I try my best to be patient and make of less uncomfortable for him. He keeps saying he will stop hanging out when the baby comes but I don’t believe him. If you can’t do it now then can you really just drop everything and do it after delivery? I hate falling asleep alone. I hate that after he breaks my sleep I’m up for hours while he’s sleeping like a baby. When the kid gets here it’s not going to be a stress free environment. How do I know you won’t continue to take time whenever it gets hectic? I just feel like I’m either being selfish, irrational and controlling or I’m dealing with a man child. He’s 7 years my senior. Like seriously, what does it take for you to chill and stay home. I’m not trying to smother the man but seriously am I being unreasonable by wanting him around all of the time?