I hate belonging to the group of women now who had to learn that two pink lines does not actually mean, "we are having a baby." If and when I get to see those lines again, I will cry and not just for joy but for great sorrow. I will not be giving a card to my husband that says " we are having a baby." Because we had to learn the hard way that a positive test means only what it means in the moment, which is "I am pregnant" and NOT "we are having a baby."