When he wakes up in the morning, the first thing he reaches for is his phone. He plays games and watches movies/shows. We don't have a TV. We just watch stuff on our phones. He doesn't hide what he is doing from me. In fact, he sits in the living room and watches his movie or plays his game to the point that I feel very ignored. Whenever he goes to the bathroom he brings his phone and is in there for a solid half hour just to poop. I mean seriously it can't possibly take that long. He is on his phone late into the night. Then gets up quite late. He can choose his hours so it's not a problem necessarily but last winter we were extremely tight on money and we need to build more of a savings so it's not like that this year. I just wish he'd be more motivated. After sex, he doesn't cuddle or anything. He literally reaches for his phone immediately. Like I'm barely done having my orgasm and he is already reaching for his phone. It ticks me off so bad. I don't know what to do. I tried talking about it with him and he kind of just zones out on me. I feel sad because not only is he ignoring me, but also our girls and I don't want them growing up like he did- constantly feeling ignored by their dad. I get the feeling that he wants to unwind after a day of work. But really does it take from the time he gets home till midnight to unwind? It's makes me so mad. I'm partly venting and partly hoping for advice. PLEASE no "dump the whole man" comments. Thank you. ETA he never used to be like this.