Okay....Hello to anyone who is reading this. I've recently met a new guy who I've found vey attractive. We hit off real quick I liked his personality right off the start. He is a great guy who is trying to get back on his feet and I'm okay with that. I don't judge people.

But yea....As I'm trying to get too know him I started to see everything that I haven't seen nor notice of who he really is until now, like he is a very and I mean a very hard smoker. He like smoking weed and cigarettes back to back.....He could be finish smoking a weed and then go smoke a cigarette right after while we are sitting in the car....I don't smoke and never liked the smell of it....I told him that but I guess he figured it's his car so if he wants to smoke inside he's going to do it anyway.

Second thing: Since we been talking he never once taken me out on dates. He would say that he will but when that day comes I never hear from him at all. Each time I'll bring it up. He always have some excuse. He told me that we are not allow to be seen at night, only in the daytime. ( I find that kind of weird 🤔...Don't you?)....What makes it frustrating is that he makes time for his family/friends who I've never once met. I've also notice this about him too, whenever he's at my apartment and his brother will call him just to ask where are you...he have to lie as to where he is at.....I asked him, why not tell that person you're at a woman apartment as of now....Why have to lie. He responds no honest answer..(Smh)

3rd thing: I was fed up after this....We never done anything but yet he always asking for money as to paying a bill, getting him something to eat, or asking me can he have some of my food because he have no money to get him some food, he's not a clean person, he never introduce me to his family nor friends but whenever I would mention about wanting to have sex...He quick to come over without any doubt. When I notice that I had to tell him I just don't see this working out at all and decided to leave him....He seem disappointed and upset with me but....

Have I made the right choice? Or Was I a little too hard/judgemental?