He went on and on and on

I had a really long day today helping my mum out with the little ones. They were going crazy screaming being really bad, and I was running after them.

Im on holiday at the moment and my boyfriend said hey make sure ur not on ur phone too much and I said yeah of course.

Today when I was waiting for my mum and her friend in a shop, I went on instagram for a bit and he said get off of your phone when I sent him a meme, he complained for 20 mins the moment I got into the hotel room spamming me saying why why why why dont u ever listen to me, you’re always on your phone, I just want you to enjoy your holiday and spend more time with ur family.

Now I understand how he thinks. You all probably think he has a point. But this is a part he doesn’t get at all. Ive been spending a considerable amount of time witb my mum, putting my phone away, helping with the kids a lot and my mum and stepdad are close to divorcing. Of course, there’s tension, theres arguments, and this is by far the worst holiday. We are at a lovely resort and I’m grateful, but the company around you is what really helps you to enjoy it right??

He does not understand that I do not have a family like his, where I can actually enjoy myself as he always tells me to. He calls me spoilt and negative and that I shouldn’t complain.

Im stuck lol

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ho

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Why the hell is he trying to control how you spend you time off. Tell him to fuck off and go on your phone all you want. He's not your dad or overseer. He just a boyfriend.

Be

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There's nothing wrong with being on your phone for 5 minutes while everyone is busy. He can mind his business and not hassle you while you're on vacation