My husband clams up whenever I mention I am in my fertility window, it’s too much pressure... so I stopped telling him. We usually have sex only 1-2 times a week and to be honest, i never really initiate it. Today I hit my peak with EWCM and i really want to me sure we BD, but I don’t want to tell him I’m ovulating because I don’t want him to clam up and feel the pressure, but I also never ever Initiate sex, so he is going to assume something is up if I do initiate it, and pressure is on again!

Help! I am walking around the house in yoga pants and a cute sports bra hoping he just initiates it and we make a baby!!

I know this sounds so dumb and lame, but The pressure is real for guys when they know it’s “now or never” (or more realistically, now or not for another month). And we both really want this to happen (WE ARE BOTH MID-30S... TIME IS TICKING) 😩😩😩