How do you improve your bjs? I was talking with my boyfriend and watching a YouTube episode where they play truth or dare with exes and stuff. They were rating how good they were at sex and my boyfriend said that if I try REALLY hard I’m maybe an 8. At first hearing that was okay but then the more I thought it sorta got to me that I don’t measure up to his previous relationship. Eventually I just got really bummed.

He later asked me what was wrong and when I told him he just said that I have a bad reflex. I totally get that and have been trying SO hard to give better head. Last night I tried again and it took over an hour and in the end I was so fed up and in tears because I’ve known for a while that I’m not good at that. He had to finish himself off because I was so disappointed with myself. He told me that it’s okay but I still feel some shame that I can’t get him there.

What are your tips and tricks for a gal that gags 🙄